Most Helpful Girl
Yes i think being confident adds up a lot of points. Where i live there are a lot of short guys but what i noticed is that, if you believe that you are worth it, attractive and great at a certain point you will believe it and trust me, being confident is almost as the same level as looks or personality. also eventually by doing the things you enjoy you can meet someone that will see you for who you are and love you just the way you are. remember no one is perfect, and no, girls won't reject you, maybe some do but thats life, everyone gets rejected. so i think you should work on your confidence and results pay off
Most Helpful Guy
Work on yourself man, you need to believe in yourself man! Grow and get better, you know what you want, so work on yourself. Don't work for other people's validation for some girl. Only improve for genuine self progression. Shyness isn't good it is fear and you can be confident, it just takes practice! Go put yourself in uncomfortable situations and social interactions! It just takes practice man!