Are women worth it, anymore?

I only ever engage in hookups with women. Simply because, I don’t feel women are worth pursuing, or accepting because I’ve been approached by women.

I don’t particularly trust women or like to share my deep personal emotions in case I get hurt. Or she backstabbs me and tell other people. I’m starting to see relationships as a waste of time. I’m also quite anxious

I always wanted to get married and have kids. But in the past few years, I feel women have really changed. More cockier/bitchy/unfaithful/dishonest/ I used to know so many like sensitive caring girls 5yrs ago. I live In The same area.
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  • There will always be shitty people - of either gender... people are much more self absorbed these days because they can afford to be. People don’t NEED each other like they did 50 years ago. Not as many women need men to pay for them, men don’t need women to care for and build a home for them.
    But, if you want a decent partner (and I’m only assuming you do because it was a previous desire) then you have to see that you need to be a decent prospect yourself. That doesn’t mean rolling over and letting people take advantage of you by any means, but by living to the standards you’re wanting for a spouse. Cocky, dishonest, bitchy... I’m not trying to sound inflammatory but so many of your comments at women on this post embody those traits you hate in others... so why exactly would a decent woman want to settle down with you over men who display the traits she desires?
    People seem to think you have to be a cuck who caves on everything or a total asshole that gives nothing - there is SO much in between and those are the men who generally end up in fulfilling relationships.
    All the best with whatever you actually desire out of life anyway, be that cohabitstional bliss or bachelor freedom 😊

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    • Women do still need men regardless of whether they are independent or not. I’ve seen women who remain single become really bitter. Very few enjoy that type of life.

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    • Lol you’re completely missing my point. Good luck with your search 😊

    • Thanks. Okay it’s a want, but it feels like a need, even though I’m not obsessed.

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  • Dude, i am 100% behind you on this... women aren't worth the effort anymore. I quit trying about 6 years ago... now i just do me... they can fall in line with it, or fuck off... i don't care anymore.

    What happened to the days when the biggest argument was who is a gentleman and who is a Lady? those things are extinct now... now its "bros" and "hoes"... the society has gone to shit. The dating pool is murky... and full with stupid women and ignorant guys.

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What Girls Said 16

  • From your angry comments, no. You ain't worth a dime pursuing either.

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    • You’re just proving my comments true.

  • With that mindset? No. Better stick to yourself.

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    • had that mindset for damn near 6 years...

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    • No actually. I know her from before, she’s an ugly, bitter virgin. She lives in Miami and works at a hospital I tracked. She is specialising is gastrointestinal shit after she did internal medicine. I think I know where her flat is aswell.

    • ain't that serious homie. she's just karahiri to me. what she does outside of this site is her fucking business... unless she talks to me outside of here. which she doesn't... so.. i can talk shit lol

  • Nah dude, men is where it's at.

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  • With that attitude no. Look as a woman we always hear you have to kiss a lot of toads to find your prince. Princes don’t exist, but the perfect guy for you can. My point is, you have to wade through a lot of shit first. Be selective, don’t sink everything into a girl without knowing her. Be open to something happening but don’t go into every relationship saying she’s the one. You will find yourself not being disappointed and eventually the perfect one for you.

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  • We’re still worth it. Yes there are a lot of duds out there, but that’s why she’s called: “the one.” Also, it depends on what type of girls you typically go after. If you’re going after the superficial, gorgeous, unloyal, and insensitive type, then change your type. I am a unique woman that is unlike any other woman in the world, and I will wait for my “one”

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  • I think we changed because men made us like this.
    We know that men can use us and hurt us so we try to turn off our emotions. This world is sick and probably it will be like this forever. But everyone has something good inside. You just need to learn how to notice that.

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  • A lot of good girls ask if men are worth it anymore. If only there was an easy way to pair up good girls with good guys.. Life would be so much easier. Don't give up on girls. There are a lot of good girls that have also been hurt by dishonesty and would like to find good guys.

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  • From what I'm hearing, I think you might like the ideas spread around in the incel community (event if you aren't actually one).

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  • Still believe in finding a girl who isn't cocky, bitchy or dishonest. There are loads but you search on the wrong page... try to read from an other page and you'll find someone... just believe it

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  • You're just talking to the wrong women, there are a lot of us who are caring. but with that mindset, you won't meet them.

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  • You need to work on your attitude before you pursue women.

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  • It's hard to find genuine people nowadays, but if you don't search, you won't find.

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  • I don't trust anyone and internationally plan to live alone in the middle of know whare

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  • You know I feel the same about men.

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  • Good luck with that attitude.

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    • oh shut up, just because you were earlier... its shitty out here these days. Before, it used to be the men that were full of shit... now its the women.

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    • I hope you didn’t hurt yourself when you fell off your chair.

    • nah... been drinking... nothing ever hurts then. not till the morrow at least

  • Still try

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What Guys Said 8

  • At this point..
    .. I like who I like, I care about who I care about, and I don't who I don't.

    I understand your expectations of most girls being extremely low.. but I don't think it's worth COMPLETELY giving up on.

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  • I clicked the wrong button... again... fuck this shit...
    Yes women are worth it! I got really upset when I tried to get a girlfriend but when I came here and asked for help there were so many kind and respectful girls who helped me and gave me hope again, so yes I am sure that they are worth everything! At least those with a good heart. But there are also quit a lot of bad men but that´s not a reason to say every man is a player or stuff like that.

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  • Everybody's so selfish and into their own world thinking Its all about me it's really hard to have any kind of relationship with women nowadays

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  • I'm just reading the comments and laughing at you all ( both genders ) ! lol

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  • Women are awesome

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    • Thank you.

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    • That’s no real man 😂, get out with that bullshit.

    • @pink1980 I think you take this with a grain of salt. GAG is so full of hysterical people. Many young. Thus more hysterical for they have little life experience.

      You just have to look at the comments on this site to see their consistent behaviour. Willing to insult but only using 'anon' for they lack the courage to put their name to it

  • Generally speaking i agree but if you search long enough you can still find some here and there.

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  • A few.

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  • They aren't worth your time, effort, emotion, or love. While you are trying to become the best man you can be, building up your finances, becoming more confident, learning new skills and entertaining them, they are busy doing less than 1% of any of that.

    Men chase after women, entertain them, pay for dates, are expected to perform in sex, and deal with all of her crap, but what's the payoff for all of this? The most she'd do for you is wear her favorite outfit, and that's probably more to show off to other females...

    The juice is no longer worth the squeeze and I checked out years ago...

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