Most Helpful Guy
Usually there are warning signs before it happens. No man suddenly goes from being husband material to being an absolute dickhead overnight.
Unfortunately, it IS the girl's fault for not seeing those signs since girls have free will to choose which guy they decide to date.
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Most Helpful Girl
Because then that means taking responsibility. Taking responsibility for something, especially if it was your fault, is hard for a lot of people to do, men and women. The girl is only at fault for tolerating the treatment but she's not at fault for him actually BEING a dick. Him being a jackass is his fault and her staying is no excuse for him to continue being an asshole.
You can't control what someone does to you. However, you are in control of whether or not you allow it to continue.