Yes, somewhere at some time a man said I like thin girls, or I like shaved armpits or I love that makeup on you.
Sure that happened but it's you girls who in competition with each other keep it all up. If you all stopped at once I'm 100% sure we would still pair up. So why blame men for the standard you are setting with each other?
Men do not force you to shave or eat less or put on makup... so I'm sorry but that isn't something I really feel you have the right to blame us for. We like it... we don't make you do it. That is your choice. L
Most Helpful Girl
I also don't think men are all to blame. Sure there are some scummy dudes who actually do say things like "ew women shouldn't have any body hair" or "girls over 100 pounds are fat" and whatever, but that's like some stupid minority.
Most difficult thing to realise is that some of these insecurities are placed by other women. There is no-one so keen to complain about how young women dress than older women.
Not one man has ever complained about dark circles under my eyes, told me that my eyelashes are short or that I'm fat. Women have told me those things.
Of course I'm also lucky since all the men in my life have been mostlt very kind and caring. Some of my friends have not been so lucky. They have been told that they're ugly, fat, hairy, stupid...
But stupid people are everywhere.3
Most Helpful Guy
Yea... just a heads up dude... you are not gonna get through to that many females. already had this conversation with them when i ask why they wear low hanging tops that they have to keep pulling up, or short skirts they have to keep pulling down.
My response has always been "because it makes me feel cute..." and then i ask... cute... FOR WHO? obvious answer being "for men"... but then they deny that shit every time. Like we are stupid.
why make yourself uncomfortable then? if it wasn't for something.0