Yet, I've seen women constantly being hit on and asked out on dates. They're usually never without a partner or potential suitor.
Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, it sounds like you're unattractive. But not in the way you think.
You're unapproachable and probably too pessimistic, which comes off as being disinterested in men and being asked out.
So I think people might avoid approaching you if they feel they might get rejected -- everybody hates rejection.2
Most Helpful Girl
The online dating thing is hard. A lot of crap to sort out. Now I suffer from Borderline, anxiety, and PTSD. It is even trickier for us to get involved with people. It is not every man that can handle a girl that has our issues. It takes an extremely special man. I have always laid my cards out on the table right away. I never enjoy wasting my time. Most guys get lost after hearing the stuff in my life and I am okay with that. I don’t want them in my life if they can’t manage anything less than sunshine and roses every day.
Honestly, if you aren’t confident right now in who you and you are feeling unattractive my honest suggestion is to stop looking for a while and work on yourself. I did that for 2 years after an abusive relationship had completely destroyed me. One day I realized I was ready.
You will find someone that is perfect for you, be cautious but open. You I am sure are beautiful you need to believe it before anyone else will.1