Most Helpful Guy
I understand its hard, i got trough this to, just meet new people and go on its hard i know really i do but, i speak out of my own experience, just find a new guy to love an loves you even more back
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, and unfortunately is only by these conditions:
1) Time, yeah I know, it sucks, but it happens
2) When you find a better love. Nobody will replace him, but with experience and maturity you will find a better match.
3) When you finally start living your life and focusing on your next step, not an easy one, but keep growing up, this things happen, and then...
When you remember him, he won't be your first love, because you will realize that your first love was not just him, but all the other amazing people that you loved more than him, it may be your husband, your first child, your book or the song that you just wrote, time is the only healer.
I am sending you a big hug and hope you can grow out of him and get more happy memories.