- Keep trying
- Move on
Should I move on or keep trying to date this girl?
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Ok, here's the thing. Do you really like her? Like you want to be with her? If so, you can have her, but I'll tell you right now, you fucked up a bit brotha. She asked you to stay over her house a couple times, you friggen laid in her bed with her, she was down to get intimate. It's ok though man, I've fucked opportunities like that up as well.
She probably just feels a bit insulted cause you didn't make the move when she was OBVIOUSLY DOWN lol it happens, she feels like she put herself out there, you didn't go for it and she took as somewhat of an insult.
If you want her, here's what I recommend you do, give her some space. Don't text her for a bit, like a few days to a week. When it comes to texting I'd say more is bad. I've screwed it up with a bunch of girls I really like because I over texted them. The more I hit her up to go out/chat when she was busy, the farther I pushed her away and the farther I pushed her away, the more I would text her trying to get her back.
There's this girl I met about 3 weeks that I really like, like she's very cool girl/good person. She just got out of a relationship like the week before I met her. i met her through some friends at bar/club. Anyways, we hit it off pretty well and I got her number, text her the new few days and I asked her out and initially she was down, but then she changed her mind because she said she just got out of a relationship and wasn't ready to date but she was down to go out with a group of friends again. I said no worries its cool.
Anyways, we didn't cause we both got sick that next weekend and she seemed busy/didn't respond after my last text so I just left it as is. I didn't text her at all for over a week, just to give her her space and I figured I was just going to be really patient and take my time.
I was going to hit her up tomorrow and she if she was down for doing something this weekend, and guess what? She hit me up today and saying "We never went out!". Sometimes you just gotta give a girl space. Back off and they'll want you more. It's not easy, especially if you really like them, but think about, girls do it to guys all the time. They back off and it makes us want them more because people want what they can't have. I'm not saying play hard to get. Just give people their space/give them time to miss/think about you. It'll make them want to be around you more.0
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