Most Helpful Girl
A guys appearance intially attracts me, but his personality determines if feelings develop or not. So both are important
If I'm not physically attracted to him then I wouldn't consider dating him, and if he has a shit personality I wouldn't continue to date him
I'm sure a guy wouldn't be interested if I told him I wasn't physically attracted to him, and that I was only dating him because I liked his personality. Who would want to be with a partner who wasn't physically attracted to them? Everyone wants their partner to have a physical attraction towards them
Most Helpful Guy
Looks. Looks lead to discovery of personality. If she or he is so fked up in looks it'd be pointless. Looks is a mandatory check before anything else.