How do some guys change from a lacking in confidence guy who’s never dated to someone who is popular with girls and gets a girlfriend easily overnight?


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  • Pretend to be confident if you're not (not cocky) and be nice. People love people that are actually interested in them. I did a journalism project last semester and made some really great friends because I could ask them everything!!

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  • Most people cannot change overnight and if they do then the most likely reason is that they let go of fear. Fear is the route of self consciousness and self consciousness holds you back. If you stop being afraid of all the bad things that might happen by being bold then you might actually find that you set yourself free to be the best version of yourself.

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  • 1. Its all about skills and a constructive auto criticism.
    2. Everyone is good at something, and bad at many other things. Make a list on both of them. Mantain at what you are good at and take classes/ask for help/read on/go to the gym for what you're not.
    The more personal it is, the more likely MANY others are on your same boat.
    3. Always be forward and honest on your intentions. If you ask someone out, be certain to convey it's in a romantic level.
    Most women are nice if you are honest. If she declines, ask her opinion on it. You'll gain a female friend, some insight and if you're lucky she may even help you date someone else.
    4. Try to do new things at least once, half of anyone's confidence is by extrapolating from something they've already lived/done.
    5. Always remember, it's about tastes and compatibility. It's not about being good enough. There's someone else that shares at least some of your interests.
    5. There's no "easily won girlfriends" there are other easily won stuff. Is that what you really want? Not judging. Just be honest. It's all about what skills you want to learn.
    Finally, look for other guy that you think has what you are looking to become. Ask. Maybe you'll have to pay a beer or two.. But you'll gain an insight about more specific things.

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  • There are books & classes to help people be more assertive, and real confidence only comes with success. But a lot of what might appear to be overnight success in dating is probably just kismet. When you meet people you easily jive with, charisma looks natural.

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  • Been there man. Usually it starts in focusing on yourself first and just going for it. There's bumps in the road and you gotta accept that

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  • Everyone can change.

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