Why do some people do this to ourselves?
Most Helpful Guy
It tends to be born of a level of insecurity. The validation that you cannot get has far more appeal when you are someone who needs validating. The validation that comes too easily loses power.
When someone refuses to like you it compels you to question why and it digs into your insecurities. They then start to become articificially powerful to you. This is how many people end up stuck in abusive relationships, because the approval is and kindness is slowly taken away and the abused partner is forced to chase it. It's a vicious circle that sees them being like a fish on a hook, constantly being reeled in but never reaching the shore.
Most Helpful Girl
I hate when that happens :( always seems to be my luck