Would you fly to a guy you met online?
What Guys Said 2
Damn sounds risky. Maybe keep someone on your side informed on what's happening. Also tell your friend to expect a message from you everyday or else call the cops. Just take any safety measures you can.1
What Girls Said 1
I've travelled a bunch to meet online friends, so I've been there.
It hard to say. With an 8 year age difference and not knowing how old you are is a bit sketchy. And also that you've only know I'm for 3 weeks. I'd definitely give it some more time before planing anything too big. And if you're planning on travelling alone I'd say be careful. It does kinda worry me that he "assured you he wouldn't make you do anything you didn't want to do", from my experience people saying that are sketchy af.
When I travelled to meet the guy I was interested in this situation was a bit different. I knew him through some mutual online friends and had met them once already. So I had people "with me" when I first met him. We did on the positive side end up hitting it off pretty well and I continued to travel to hang out with him and the others 4 more times.
But ye I'd say, give it some more time, maybe travel with someon at least the first time, but also dare to live life, just be safe.2
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