He wanted to "check in" i wasn't opposed to it per-se. Just not on the first date.
He agreed & apologise if he made me uncomfortable and so we went to a cafe. we laugh, share things about our jobs etc.
He said he didn't like he's job and he doesn't know what to do. i said "resign, take up a course u love. Its okay to not know what u want right now. Just take a first step."
The attraction was even more turned up.
He send me home and we kissed and hugged goodbye.
After that we kept texting and he resigned the day after!
i was surprised he listen if anything and chose to update me.
Second date was afew days later. i decided to sleep with him.
After sleeping with him in bed. he updated me again about his job and that he has to talk to another higher up ro give his resignation letter to. and he wants to keep in contact with me still. and he kept mentioning a few times that he likes talking to me and that he finds me refreshing.
All the way back home on his bike. we laughed and giggled at every stop we get.
he sent me home with a hug and a kiss.
The next day i told him that maybe continue to just sleep with him is not in my cards. and that im more interested in a relationship and since he doesn't know what he wants maybe we should break this off before things get serious (since he said he doesn't know what he wants)
He said fair enough. and again he said he's fine with not sleeping with me again if that makes me uncomfortable. but he wants to keep talking to me and getting to know me.
tomorrow is the day he will officially resigned. i said to him to make me a promise to tell me how it went. if it went well, lets go out and have dinner to celebrate. and it was on me. he agree happily and made a pinky swear. (lol)
So im sort of confuse if he likes me or not? and is he interested in getting to know me genuinely?
Me: so... are we friends? Fwb? Or?
Him: No. we’re not friends
Its always something new with you.
(Always discovering something new with me was what he explained to me)
Me: its obvious that i like you & im attracted to you. I just dont want it to be a one sides thing
Him: okay. Its not one sided i like you to.
Me: so whats happening after this? Are we dating?
Him: i just resign my job like today. I won't have much money to bring you out on dates.
Anw i said so “job = we’re dating? He said yes”
So now what? he's serious bout this?
He even said if i dont believe him and that i think he wants to just sleep with me.
He said we can just dont meet until he gets job.
And just keep texting it that will ease my mind.
Guys help 😕