I'm also very scared to get married and have kids. I wouldn't want to get a divorce. But when you are married that person can not love you in a month you know. With kids I don't want to have any. It looks so painful and I rather adopt.
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You Will settle when you are ready and feel like it or when you find a person you really like even if you don't feel ready. Getting married is good, just make sure he is sincere and you are too. Having babies is painful but is more painful to have to raise children that aren't yours0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE