I mean, I'll pay him back. But, why do guys like this exist? And how do I avoid this for the future? I had offered to wait it out until I got paid, but I've noticed that most guys get weirded out when I offer to pay.
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First of all I would definitely say that this guy sounds like a prick. Insults aside I do think that you should never expect someone to pay for your food etc on a first date. Splitting the bill is NOT bad in any shape or form as it shows you are both independent and can pay for yourself. Only when things get a little more serious does paying on someone's behalf become more acceptable. I hope in your case however that you don't continue to see this person as he sounds pathetic. Next time you go on a date at least take some money with you or let your date know that you haven't got enough money prior to planning anything. It's never bad to ask to split and if I knew my date didn't come out with money then it would instantly give me the impression she's not of the independent sort.
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