Should I go visit him in Germany or is it a stupid idea?
What Guys Said 2
You only live once. Dont get me wrong being responsible is nice but being in love is better
i think visit when its better for you financially. i have a similar story but i met someone online. we were friends for a year and she lives in china and i didn't think id ever go there. so i never was flirty or made any moves. we spoke everyday on video chat but i was offered a job there. this year in Shanghai. she visited me and stayed with me for a few days. it was. so awkward. she was nervous and so shy. me too. i never even kissed a girl so you can only imagine. we dated. she has broke up with me twice but back together again lol since today. I don't know why. she says she crazy and i think she is. her friends or family dont know of me just because china is so traditional. he father would kill me i think if he knew. even with all the pain she has caused me ( a fair bit i may add as i love her and didn't want to break up) id go through it all again. i think if you feel he is the one then take the risk. you may not find the one again. Some risk no matter how high is worth taking.
What Girls Said 1
What do you think? If your heart wants to visit him go..
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