Most Helpful Guy
Well the first thing you need to realize is that this isn´t about your boyfriend or any other man in the future. This is 100% insecurity and you wanting to feel accepted by your boyfriend. There´s no logical reason he would dump you for someone else. Just establish clear communication with him and talk about how you feel. He´ll understand and surely things will be easier in the future. My ex did cheat on her ex so I know how you feel right now. I had to wrestle with the same thoughts but in the end I just thought "Okay, I can either worry about this until she actually does something, or I can enjoy her and have faith in her because I´m not her ex".
Most Helpful Girl
I don’t blame you for having those insecurities, because if his past is any indication, then it’s possible he could leave. Here’s the thing though: when you decided to be exclusive with someone, you have to make the choice to truly trust them and their intentions, otherwise you’re doomed from the start. If his past is too much of an obstacle for you to get over, then I’d advise you break up now, before you’re too in love and it’ll be harder. However, if you wanna stay with him it’s just a matter of trusting your gut and his intentions.