Should I make a boyfriend?

Well i am 14..
And seems like everyone is in relationship but i am single..
I think i want love or to love someone..
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What is the first thing that come to your mind when a girl send you friend request and text you first?

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  • Everybody feels like that. Sabhi ko aisa hi lagta hai.

    I dont understand the need to make a gf/bf.

    If you are close to a girl/boy (as a friend) enough to share all happiness , sorrows, good, bad experiences and willing and eager to listen to each other

    Then what is the need to "tag" him/her as your gf/bf?

    Kya hai bhai koi reservation ki process toh nahi chalu hai na?

    Aur agar chalu bhi hai toh mujhe batana

    Will you really marry your bf/gf that you are going to make at this age of "14"

    Answer is NO

    Pehla boyfriend tumse shadi karega ya aap us se shadi karoge iski koi guarantee hai kya?

    Hogi bhi toh mujhe batana, are you self sufficient, are you financially independent?

    Answer is NO

    This​ is not the age dear

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    • You will make a boyfriend. Kya hone wala hai?
      After some time a breakup or cheating

      New boyfriend new breakup...

      Result-
      Academic loss, Distraction from studies!

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  • Don't think about it too much.
    If you find someone you really like and they like you too, then you could.
    But don't find someone random just to get a boyfriend.

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    • You're bad.

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    • Really? I advise Schopenhauer and other philosophers about women. Also, Lars von Triers' films are nice. I wanted to write because I wanted to spill out my hatred against women.

    • @CreativeMumble dont waste your time !
      He is just bitter no one like him.

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What Guys Said 15

  • Well first of all, you need to know why you want a boyfriend. Adolescents often feel like this due to some reasons like Hormonal Rush, Lonliness, Inability to express themselves and the biggest problem since eternity- PEER PRESSURE.
    Yours look like the last one. Well just because everyone is in a relationship doesn't mean that you should be in one too. I know right I've been there and being as a shy guy who rarely used to talk with girls i. e. I had no female friends (not even a single girl). It made me feel cringed out and I was like "Whaaaaat the hell is wrong with me?". If everyone is ready for a relationship, that doesn't mean you're ready too. I know how it feels. Not very long, I was there and the feelings generally aren't sexual. I just wanted a girl whom I could talk to, cuddle with and could share things with her. I'm still single though happier than before.
    Wish you Luck!
    Hope it helped.

    And at last, We guys don't feel weird when a girl texts us first instead it shows that she's interested and talkative. I personally like talkative girls a lot haha😊

    Finally sorry for wasting your time.
    CHEERIO!

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  • NO! God where is this planet going. You´re 14 so just enjoy doing other stuff and getting to know yourself. Plenty of time to meet boys later on. Guys at your age aren´t the ones you should be around. Trust me. You´ll only get traumas

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  • Making having a boyfriend is not necessary like study lol
    At this age mind kinda divert but don't let that happen...
    It'll happen when it is meant to be :)

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  • If that's what you want, go fo for it.

    Friend request and being texted first by a girl? Well that's almost how I got my first girlfriend in freshman year high school. I think my thoughts were something like "... I think she's totally into me!" She was but that relationship only lasted a month which was a bit of a trend with my early relationships unfortunately.

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  • You're only fourteen. You have a lifetime of love and love lost. Don't worry about it. Everyone has their own time and pace.

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    • My thoughts are that she would like to know me. The rest is up to both of us. If she ends up not liking me after we get to know one another, c'est la vie

  • You're quite young
    I don't think you should do what everyone else is doing
    It'll will happen eventually someday
    Don't be desperate
    Still I'd say it's your life so your choice plus it's a lot of work

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  • If you find a guy you like then go for it but don't date just for the sake of it and when a girl sends me a request first it just tells me that she isn't very shy

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  • Don't worry your love is just around the corner and you get to see him soon so chill 😀😀👍

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  • Well had you fall with anyone?
    Do you have crush?
    When I message to any girl I think kash uska reply mil jaye...
    Sab relation me hai isliye tum bhi relation me rehna chahti ho ye bat galat hai...

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  • Yes. Nothing wrong

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  • if it floats ur boat, go for one.

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  • follow your heart and you'll have no regrets

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  • The grass is always greener.

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  • Yes. Go with someone a little older though

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  • no, when i was your age, i wasn't wanting one. why should you

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What Girls Said 2

  • Girl you're only 14. You should date someone only if u really like them. Not because u feel like u should have a boyfriend.

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  • You don't think you want love just because everyone around you is in a relationship.. you're so young.. take this time to understand and improve yourself.. make friends.. enjoy life now

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