Hi girls and guys !
I'm actually dating a beautiful woman, but i'm the only one scheduling the dates.
So i'm asking myself, does some women likes to be carried and always wait for the men to do the "date scheduling job", or some actually likes to suggest for the next date?
I find it frustrating to be the only one to ask because I don't want to be seen as a clingy guy :/
But I understand that some women are "old school" and likes to feel desired.
What is your opinion about this?
- Only men should schedule a dateVote A
- Only women should schedule a dateVote B
- Both women, and men should do itVote C
Most Helpful Girl
Remember, your lady may be shy about planning something if you're the one who usually pays - she doesn't want to plan something you can't afford.
But yes - in as much as they can - it's great if couples plan dates together. And it's great if they surprise each other sometimes.
I hope you can get your lady excited about sharing some ideas with you. Let her know you'd love if she tossed out some things she has always wanted to do, misses, doing, has a new restaurant she wants to try - could be anything.1
Most Helpful Guy
If you're in a relationship or even if you're starting out in a relationship, then YES!! The man and woman should both take part in planning the dates and outing. Having an equal say is what being in a relationship is about, at least in my opinion. Besides I would think it would be a lot more fun and enjoyable if both partners had an equal say in the date outing.
Unfortunately where I live women seem to think it's unmanly for the man to ask the woman what she wants to do for a date. It's essentially expected that the guy will think of and take care of everything on a date... and in some case the relationship. I only moved to this city for work 3 years ago, but the thought process here is so extremely conservative it boggles my mind.1