We still talked for another week but you could still sense a type of coldness from him. He was definitely hurt, he mentioned it at least 3 times over messages and would not forgive me for saying it. He told me that I put myself in the friend zone from that day I said it, and that he takes a step back from people who "hurt" him. Yet why did he still consistently text me? I asked him why he would drag it another week if he doesn't see me in a romantic way anymore and he quickly responded: "we can still hang out, go out to eat" I ended up saying "I don't do that type of thing with guys unless he is of interest" The next day I said "it's sad it had to be like this" and blocked him and removed him everywhere from my social media. (Kind of following the no contact rule)
Is there any possibility that he will contact me again? I'm obviously hurting.
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He wanted sex. Thats why it pissed him off. Not really because you said the wrong thing. That's why guys go on dates. If he was in to you as a person he would still want sex only that comment in that situation would have only ticked him off abit but not to the point where he would mentioning it. It wouldn't have derailed the date becasue he would still be into you as a person. This guy is a dick there is a very good chance he would try and contact you in some way if he could and that would be terrible. I guaranty that if you sleep with him now you will never see him again. So not hearing from him is absolutely the best situation. You dodged a bullet. That "only for sex" line isn't great cos it takes sex then and there off the table ( guys dont want to hear that) but this time it was the best thing you could have said. You found out he was a dick and you didn't let that passive aggressive shit get to you. Well done! And go find someone worth your time.1