Why do guys just want to fuck me and not have a relationship with me?

I'm a curvy/chubby/a little overweight and I do get a lot of interest from guys cause I dress really nice and I am quite pretty.

I've noticed though that guys just want to fuck me and I think that might be because the way I dress and present myself shows that I'm confident so maybe portrays me as someone who is maybe a little bit of a dick lover (which I am lol but I'm not a hoe).

BUT.. guys just want to fuck me and that's it. Any idea why? I'm a very nice person and quite funny but I dunno.. do you think it's the way I dress? Is it to do with my weight? Do guys wanna fuck a chubby girl but would be embarrassed to be in a relationship one? LET ME KNOW PLS THANKS x

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  • They want you for it because you're willing to give it away that freely.

    You're evaluating yourself but if you are enjoying it there is no harm. If it bugs you then you need to make a change.

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    • yeah i guess so! thanks a lot :)

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  • It's not just how you dress, it's what you accept and how you accept being treated. The world today thinks its fine to have premarital sex, and that sex isn't confined to marriage. So this is the issue sadly your going to suffer with. And if you're having sex with them before marriage, and believing in premarital sex, this is why. They are told it's okay to do this. Porn teaches men it's okay to treat women like sex objects, and for women to accept being a sex object. If you tell them no, then they have to leave or else it's harassment. All those guys want is sex. A person who respects you won't be looking for sex. They would want a relationship with you and then wait for sex if both of you are interested. Preferably it being done in marriage. Other than that, They don't CARE. That's why you have to care.

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    • to be honest i live in england where it really is quite uncommon to wait until marriage to have sex

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    • again that is entirely up to you ask her it is not my life it is your life. if you want to put yourself in serious and dangerous situations that is your choice. If you want to put your life in danger because you want to try to impress people that is your choice. Even if you say is not for them it's for you that is still your choice. But you need to understand that this always going to be a consequence to those choices. You may find the person who will love you and respect you or you may not. Will you choose to do will determine your future. And you'll either will have a good one or bad one. Everything is choice but it's up to you to go through the door that you think is right. I cannot tell you how to live your life.

    • It is up to you to open your eyes and see the truth but it's also up to you to remain blind to it. That is your responsibility as a woman as well as an adult. Perhaps you may not realize this now maybe someday you will. And maybe you won't it is wise that you don't wait until then because nobody is promised tomorrow.

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What Guys Said 15

  • Make yourself known that thats what you want maybe change where you meet guys.

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    • lol the past two guys i've met at work, maybe i should definitely branch out

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    • i've had a friends with benefits where we both knew exactly what we liked but he moved away. i have good sex but just because i'm dominant

    • There are guys who are into that. Depends how far you wamma take it.

  • It happens to the best of girls although your weight could be a factor. There's a saying "fat girls are like mopeds, fun to ride but don't let your friends find out" I'm not saying you're fat, I don't know what you look like. But there are a lot of guys who just want to use women for sex regardless of what they look like.

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  • Not every guy is like that. Chances are you are sexually appealing to them but they might want a hotter girl for their girlfriend. Its weird at your age. I got massive erections over girls that I didn't think were pretty enough to date but I was in lust with them. As you get oder guys will simply appreciate that and like you for it

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    • this makes sense! thanks!

  • Either none of the men you interact with want a relationship, or none want one with you. In any case, none are worth keeping around. Dating is a crap shoot. I has to go through my share of duds too. Just keep your head up and don't settle.

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    • it's so annoying having to date it's exhausting!!! i don't settle and should probably stop putting out just cause i think it's what they want

  • Yes you may have a high sec appeal, chubby girl usually can be very sexy especially if they have nice tits. But true maybe some guys could be embarrassed to be with them in public. but once you find the man he will worship you basically.

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  • You have a good sex appeal.
    N everything u said is right.
    But its upto u who to be with.
    So wait... For someone who respects your soul and body.
    Not just body.

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  • You see there are three types of guys in this world:
    >Perverts
    >Teases
    >Lovers
    Perverts just want to fuck everyone they find somewhat, or even not attractive at all. Quite simply, they take a good girl, throw them around like a hacky-sack at a hippy festival, and turn them into bad girls.
    Teases aren't really attracted to anyone. They just simply faking liking people so they can flirt and be amused.
    Lovers are real. They actually like you for who you are and stick with you through thick and thin. They're what every girl needs, but few get unfortunately.

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  • Maybe your more fukable than dateble I would like to be fukable then again it is nice to be in a relationship? .

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  • You are experiencing what we like to call fuckboys. Stay away, their kind will fuck to anything

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  • So don't give sex unless he commits

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What Girls Said 5

  • Sex is more fun than having a relationship to young guys. But there's enough guys who realize that there's more to life than sex. I wish you all the luck finding one like that

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  • Unfortunately, there are a lot of guys like that and it happens to all of us regardless of our size. The hard part is weeding out the fuck boys to find the right ones. The right ones will want to have a relationship with you because your pretty, funny, etc. Hang in there!

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  • lots of guys dont like being seen with fat girls. ever heard that quote "fat girls are like mopeds, fun to ride as long as ur friends dont see" also if u dress like a thot then men see it as advertising sexually

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    • lol i don't dress like a thot i just dress nicely and it portrays me to be v confident

    • also I do go on dates... in public.. maybe I just get too clingy haha

  • bc those guys dont want a girlfriend.

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  • Same happened to me

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    • shit isn't it

    • YEP now a guy isn’t flirting with me and he has a girlfriend. I don’t know why this is happening to me

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