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Without knowing what your profile looks like, the best I can tell you is to fill out your profile with stuff a guy can talk to you about. Otherwise, all you'll get will be, "Hey," or "Hi," or a dick pic.
Also, you need good photos. The best ones to post should be of you by yourself (so guys know who they're talking to), without sunglasses (so your eyes are visible), wearing something nice (not too formal if you want to be approachable, not too revealing if you want more than just a hookup). Kids (even if they're not yours) and other guys (even if they really are relatives) don't belong on a dating profile. If you absolutely must show your pets, don't go overboard with them.