Suppose there's a woman who weighs 170 lbs and she loses 50 lbs and becomes 120 lbs.
She's the same person. She has the same ideas, the same attitude, the same thoughts and feelings. She might be fun or a little boring. She might be smart or a little silly. She may be caring or selfish at times. But nothing has changed except that she lost 50 lbs.
Is it guaranteed that she's going to get approached more by strangers (either in person or online) just because she's thinner?
Assume someone who's an average nice person, but not particularly outstanding in any other way. Her online dating profile has the same text before and after.
- Yes, she will get approached more but not necessarily get dates
- Yes guys will ask her out on dates right away because she's more attractive
- No, a guy still judges primarily on personality
Most Helpful Guy
Considering I like to keep fit, I'm certainly going to be interested in a woman who also takes care of their body by exercising to keep fit. Which in turn means I am more interested in women who are physically slim or fit. It's cool if they are more fit than me, so long as they don't try using me as their weights to bench press or a kick boxing cushion, lol. (sigh... that probably doesn't sound as funny as I'm thinking it does)
Regardless it's all personal preference, mine is to find a girlfriend who is fit and likes going for jogs and canoe trips and similar.
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Most Helpful Girl
Sadly, once you lose weight and become thinner people start to treat you differently. They start to treat you better and get interested just because you lost some pounds even if your heart and mind has stayed the same.
It is the judgement of our world, one where outward appearances can immediately change someones attitude about you.