Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, relax. Being stressed out and freaking out doesn't help, so chill. You acknowledged that you know he's not much of a planner. So everything you left to him is partially on you. That's your fella, for better of for worse. If you like planning and are good at it, just do it and leave him out of it. If it's stressing you out all the time and you aren't being rewarded appropriately, you have to think about cutting him loose. That said, I'm not a planner anymore. I didn't like the rigidity of it. But I have a friend who is good at it and doesn't mind. Sometimes she plans things for us, and sometimes I just surprise her with an impromptu adventure. We always have a good time either way. So ask yourself this: are you getting out of this relationship enough to justify putting up with his shenanigans? If so, relax and let him surprise you now & again. If not, move on. There are certainly other fellas out there who appreciate a planner, or even do their fair share of planning. Either way, you'll be OK.
Most Helpful Girl
Well when he come home you need to talk to him like SERIOUSLY im not sure whats he up to really? and maybe call his friends and pass the phone to your boyfriend and talk? I guess that would be good and call yor boyfriend mom too maybe she might know? or tell her to call your boyfriend :D