When he was drunk he told me he had feelings for me. Next time I see him, should I just ignore what happened? Or bring it up?
What Guys Said 8
A lot of people say that people tell the truth when they’re drunk, but I’m not so sure of the science behind that. I think you can either 1) Find a way to bring it up in a casual, nonchalant way or 2) Don’t bring it up at all. I would personally choose the latter, as I never take someone’s drunk banter as gospel. If you like him, you can try joining him in more hangouts and get to know him more that way.3
See if you can't guide your next conversation into the topic of parties or drunkenness, and then ask if he remembers anything he told you. If you like him, tell him what happened. If you don't, tell him but let him down easy.1
Beer doesn't change who we are. It reveals who we are. He is probably fighting his feelings. Leave him be.1
Ignore if u don't like him; bait him to bring up, if u like him2
You should date guys who can drink in moderation.1
Bring it up1
What Girls Said 2
Ignore what happened until the moment comes. If it gets to the point where you guys both like each other and its obvious you want something to happen, maybe bring it up and ask if he feels the same?1
If you like him as a friend I wouldn't talk with him about it. If you have feelings for him too you could talk with him about it and maybe say that you like him more than a friend. Good luck either way1
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