How long should I wait until I let my boyfriend kiss me? How would I say no if I didn't want to?

I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend until now, we've been dating for a month.

Today he brought up the topic of kissing and how he had everything planned out for our first kiss, but I've never kissed anyone before.
I'm kinda scared because I don't know if I'm ready. Any advice? How long do people usually wait?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Only 2 intelligent girls have gave you the right answers.

    First of all, if you are not ready. Max kiss is on the cheek and a hug. (Don't be a kind of a person i most hate.)

    Second, if you are really sure you like him, and you feel the "butterflies in your stomach" then go for it.

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  • You should wait for however long you feel that you need. Advice? Well, I never kissed either so I don't have much, but from what I've read you should make sure that the time and place for your first kiss is suitable.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Hey, go ahead frnd.
    It's ok.
    There is always a first time :)

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  • Well for your age I think not now.. maybe holding hands or kissing cheeks but not on lips

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  • Just go for it.

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What Girls Said 3

  • If you feel like kissing him go ahead do it. thers no perfect time for anything

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  • If you don't want to do that, just say no.

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  • It won't make u pregnant

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