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i think he doesn´t see your insecurity. i think he sees a lack of trust. cause he wouldn´t be with you if you weren't attractive and by asking if he finds you attractive, you basically imply he's living a lie.
maybe don't ask him if he finds you attractive. maybe tell him that you feel so ugly today. that may trigger his protective instinct, cause the message you send this way is different than "asking if you're still attractive" cause at some point a guy will be annoyed. cause how often does he need to reestablish that you´re attractive to him? for him it didn't change and it's just annoying to be asked the same thing over and over as if one wasn't able to tell the truth.