Guys, What am I doing wrong?

I’m 18 years old and I’ve never been asked out. I have never been on a date, never had my first kiss. What am I doing wrong? My friends and family say guys are “intimidated” by me because I’m so “pretty”. I don’t buy it. I look in the mirror and I’m not gorgeous but I’m not ugly either.
I just feel so unwanted.
I don’t overdo my makeup, and I’m a normal weight for my 5’11 height. I try my best to get out of my shell and be more outgoing.
What else do I have to do?

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  • Ok, 4 things.

    First, never listen to friends and family when they say that. That may be true, maybe you're pretty, butt they usually just want you to feel better.

    Then, you should post a pic of you in this case, so we can tell you what could be wrong, if something is wrong.

    Also, dating isn't a matter of appearance. Being pretty attract people, but in the end if you're not interesting, they won't stay and date you.

    And finally... You're a young lady. You're 18. You're barely out of your childhood. Don't rush things. Don't worry about it. You have plenty of time to kiss and date. You may even be lucky, as teens usually date for fun, and in your case you could find a more mature guy, more serious than a teen who would just want to fuck you.

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  • There's nothing wrong with this. Had my first kiss at 18. Was asked out only when I was 23. Sometimes all it takes is a change of scenery. New hobby, new job, new city, etc. It'll come to you, keep your eyes and heart open.
    (Oh and it doesn't hurt to be proactive, you can ask someone out as well you know :-) )

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  • Approach guys you're interested in. Don't wait for them to. They may never. I know it goes against your nature, but that's what's wrong and what you have to do.

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  • Men are not caring about love , and relationship as much anymore. Interacting with women is not always the best idea because of people being so triggered anymore showing intrest in a women can be a dig mistake. Also men are not raised to be men anymore so most lack confidence, and fear rejection, so lost may never ask. You will get your pick of the bad boys who just wana pump, and dump, but it may be awhile before a good guy comes in to your life.

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  • There’s nothing more you can do. If your friends and family say it’s because guys are intimidated can you should believe them they are probably right. Just make yourself look as good as you can and be patient it will happen trust me

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  • The right guy hasn't come into your life yet. Either that or you take the lead and ask a guy you like out.. it's 2017 guys are in general cool with the lass taking the lead.. in fact it's flattering in most cases 😊

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  • U don't do anything... There is a saying u will get the right person when the time comes 😂😂 don't follow this...
    I think u r not open to others.. I mean very much interactive.!
    Maybe this is the reason
    If u need any other help.. let me know

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  • You're 5'11". That's the real reason. No man that's shorter than 6'5" is going to want to be with you.

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  • Try initiating something yourself. If guys are too wary to give you a chance, asking then out instead is a great way to expedite the process. If you get lots of no's then it might be something else

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  • Maybe you should small talk to guys you like. Get the ball rolling.

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  • Guys are just nervous. Especially with all the rape hysteria and harvey weinsteins.

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