- Being overweight is a deal breaker
- Being overweight isn't a problem
Most Helpful Guy
It is a dealbreaker for me.
I cannot find it within myself to feel attracted to a large girl. A girl deserves a guy who absolutely adores her, and I would not feel adoration for a fat girl.
I am a small guy, so I shop on the smaller end anyway.
A fat girl is not compatible with me in any way. I live an active lifestyle, I am very healthy. If I can't bike across the continental divide with her, that's a bummer. She will have health issues, and those medical bills won't be great.
Most Helpful Girl
Don't worry I feel the same way. If YOU think that it's affecting you then try to make a few changes, walk everyday, cycle etc. However, this is only if YOU want to, do not change yourself and live for others. Im sure there are people out there who will love you just the way you are, but make sure you love yourself first.