Was it a good idea?
What Guys Said 2
Wow, ok, that's a lot.
*deep breath* so least start with this. Do you like him? I don't mean like as in into him, I mean it as in do you like his company, his personality, his habits and quirks and behaviors. People fall in and out of love daily, and continue without the thing the "love" after a period of time with little to no repercussion. When you like someone, when you're their friend, and truly just enjoy them as they are, every fight, every dispute... it all just falls away after a while and you bounce back. You said he was your friend first, so from their, build on that. That's a lesson I learned from my grandma.
Now for my grandpa's lesson: there are no drunk liars. People have fears, and doubts, and overthink. Especially about major decisions like a career change, or a relationship. When someone is so stupid drunk that they sound/act different, those fears and doubts are still there, but the thinking part tends to go out the window, and people tend to word vomit, saying whatever comes to their minds. If he's telling you that he's into you when he's drunk, he most likely is. Especially if he goes silent for the next few days, cuz he's probably petrified he even said anything in the first place. Try asking him first, though, instead of him bringing it up. He might need reassurance.
As for the deleting all your accounts, I think it was maybe an impulse decision, but maybe one you needed. Take a minute for you, get your bearings, and then try again. Talk to him, reassure him, and let him know how you feel about the situation. Silence solves nothing. It just breeds further confusion.
Sorry about the long post, by the way... didn't feel like a short answer would help this as much as it sounds like it needs.
Yeah that was the smartest thing to do. He's toxic stay away from him.
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