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I'd do what I normally do... slowly take steps forward, see what she's ok with. Once I know what she doesn't allow/ want to do yet, I ease off, and keep going with the easier things.
Honestly tho, if it was up to me, I'd have stopped at kissing with all my exes. I don't want to have sex, or do anything sexual. If she wants me to do it, then fine, I'll do the best I can.
Don't worry about it. You DON'T HAVE TO do anything. If he can't process this kinda stuff, you're better of looking for a smarter dude..