7 hours? That's fucking crazy. I'd be bored after 1. 2 tops. Shit, what do people have to talk about for 7 hours? I could figure out someone's life history in less time than that. Jesus.
Anyways, I don't see a reason to stop messaging him, especially if he's continued messaging you.
I think you should carry on with the chat. A lot of guys avoid to ask for a second date right away, to not give the impression of being too clingy.
Also, who set the first date? If it was him, and then he continued to seem engaged in the conversation afterwards, there's an high chance he'll ask for a second one, trust me.
Show initiative! He probably waiting on that you show you have a own drive to make it happen, participant, you aren't like the rest, real interest, that it is a 2-way thing instead of what many girl's usually do that he should make things happen.
Whenever he is ready he will set it up. You can inquire, be bold and see if he's thinking about going out. Would be nice if more women had the courage to go after what they want... But those are few and far between. If he hasn't asked. Then he will in his time. If you are too anxious to go on a date and inpatient to wait on him... Find someone else.
Well, giving that you met on Tinder..., do you like the guy? Is he attracted to you? You to him? Social media and online profiles have all but killed the old fashioned ritual of the courtship and everything else with it. Basically, it is nearly 2020 so time to be progressive like everything else and just ask him out if you like him.
Carry on the chat , not every guy is the same. And don’t overreact before it could or could not happen. If he texting everyday, then he’s interested. You never know he could be busy or trying to save for the next date.
i think you can start talking about a second date any time. when i was dating if a date went really well i'd usually broach a second date during the date or text the next day saying 'i had so much fun. when can we do it again?'
It's not over. It's also not always his responsibility to initiate a date. If you like him, ask him on a date. I'm old fashioned, but this is something I'll be progressive on. Girls asking the guy out is cute.
There is no rule that says you can't ask him out on a date. And to be honest, many men find it flattering. Bonus: if you ask him out you will find out very quickly if he is interested.
I feel like if you like each other you should mention the next date within ur first date convo, like when you talk about one of the things you’ve wanted to do then they go “ive wanted to do that too, we should go together”
2017 lady! all the stress of dating is now 50% a lot of men looking for leading girl depending on your first date your able to know what he want with the question he ask you. And trust me is not about the confident or lack of balls! If the guys want to build something serious for shure he look for a partner not a follower...
Maybe he's having trouble getting reservations at a fancy restaurant or maybe he just doesn't want to seem too pushy about the second date cuz his last partner liked to take things slow.
Patience. 2 - 3 days and you could always be forward about it. I never really get to a second date. If we click then we hang out talk chill. So good luck.
Within a week. Personally, I often won't know my own schedule definitely for the coming week right away, depending on commitments with work or other people.
The guy might have lost interest in you for some reason, but unlikely. Instead of just waiting for him to ask you out on a second date why dont you try hinting it to him when you guys text each other? That way depending on how he responds you will know for sure whether he is still keen, but hesitant for some reason or has lost interest.
There no real wait time. Some people like to play the game and keep a girl waiting or not show all his cards at once... definitely hold off for a week if nothing happens just ask him... Some mean like a girl that knows what she wants
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7 hours? That's fucking crazy. I'd be bored after 1. 2 tops. Shit, what do people have to talk about for 7 hours? I could figure out someone's life history in less time than that. Jesus.
Anyways, I don't see a reason to stop messaging him, especially if he's continued messaging you.
Ask HIM on a date!! Trust me, it’s empowering and guys love it! It lets him know you feel the same way!
I think you should carry on with the chat. A lot of guys avoid to ask for a second date right away, to not give the impression of being too clingy.
Also, who set the first date? If it was him, and then he continued to seem engaged in the conversation afterwards, there's an high chance he'll ask for a second one, trust me.
Show initiative!
He probably waiting on that you show you have a own drive to make it happen, participant, you aren't like the rest, real interest, that it is a 2-way thing instead of what many girl's usually do that he should make things happen.
In short terms.
Woman up and take what you want!
(If he runs for that he is a mismatch)
Whenever he is ready he will set it up. You can inquire, be bold and see if he's thinking about going out. Would be nice if more women had the courage to go after what they want... But those are few and far between. If he hasn't asked. Then he will in his time. If you are too anxious to go on a date and inpatient to wait on him... Find someone else.
Well, giving that you met on Tinder..., do you like the guy? Is he attracted to you? You to him? Social media and online profiles have all but killed the old fashioned ritual of the courtship and everything else with it. Basically, it is nearly 2020 so time to be progressive like everything else and just ask him out if you like him.
Carry on the chat , not every guy is the same. And don’t overreact before it could or could not happen. If he texting everyday, then he’s interested. You never know he could be busy or trying to save for the next date.
Carry on the chit chat, and see where it leads. Not all guys are fast movers, and it could be he does not have the funds to date right now.
You could drop hints about seeing each other again, and see how he responds.
i think you can start talking about a second date any time. when i was dating if a date went really well i'd usually broach a second date during the date or text the next day saying 'i had so much fun. when can we do it again?'
It's not over. It's also not always his responsibility to initiate a date. If you like him, ask him on a date. I'm old fashioned, but this is something I'll be progressive on. Girls asking the guy out is cute.
There is no rule that says you can't ask him out on a date. And to be honest, many men find it flattering.
Bonus: if you ask him out you will find out very quickly if he is interested.
If your interested, why don't you ask for the second date?
I'd say just ask him. Guys don't mind a woman being forward. If you want a date don't be scared to ask for it. It's better than waiting around,
I feel like if you like each other you should mention the next date within ur first date convo, like when you talk about one of the things you’ve wanted to do then they go “ive wanted to do that too, we should go together”
2017 lady! all the stress of dating is now 50% a lot of men looking for leading girl depending on your first date your able to know what he want with the question he ask you. And trust me is not about the confident or lack of balls! If the guys want to build something serious for shure he look for a partner not a follower...
Maybe he's having trouble getting reservations at a fancy restaurant or maybe he just doesn't want to seem too pushy about the second date cuz his last partner liked to take things slow.
Patience. 2 - 3 days and you could always be forward about it. I never really get to a second date. If we click then we hang out talk chill. So good luck.
Within a week. Personally, I often won't know my own schedule definitely for the coming week right away, depending on commitments with work or other people.
The guy might have lost interest in you for some reason, but unlikely. Instead of just waiting for him to ask you out on a second date why dont you try hinting it to him when you guys text each other? That way depending on how he responds you will know for sure whether he is still keen, but hesitant for some reason or has lost interest.
There no real wait time. Some people like to play the game and keep a girl waiting or not show all his cards at once... definitely hold off for a week if nothing happens just ask him... Some mean like a girl that knows what she wants