What should guys say on tinder to get a date?

I've been off the dating scene for a while now but i feel ready to go back and meet new people. But what do you guys say to get the other persons attention or interested in meeting you?


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  • Well, for one, be sure about what you're looking for and second, be ready to get turned down once or twice.
    A good thing is to message first. Try to avoid clich├ęs and being perverse won't get you far if you're looking for more than an one night stand.
    But mostly, be yourself. You're looking for a companion, not someone to impress. So if you can't be yourself, they probably aren't the right ones for you anyway.


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  • My hunny started off with "I'm a bit shy" It was cute lol.

    • Im shy anyways haha

    • Yes, it's hard to start off conversations. Maybe comment on their picture, or ask them what their favorite movie is. Conversation starters. I don't like when someone just says "Hey".

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