Most Helpful Guy
I think usually guys who are players will tend to get annoyed or distant when girls want to do things that don't involve sexual activity. If you know someone who's happy hanging with you even when they know it won't lead to anything, that's not a player. And if you haven't agreed to see them exclusively, there's nothing wrong with them talking to other girls. But if they only want to see you for a fling, they're probs a player.
Most Helpful Girl
Talking? If you just talk as a friend okay. But don't expect anything more.