We ended up kissing at the end of the date (making out even).
However, I don't want him to think that he's got me just because I kissed him. I want him to try and earn me instead of seeing him as one of many girls that want him badly.
Did I mess it up by kissing him? If so, what can I do for damage control? So that he knows that he still has to try and earn me--that he doesn't quite have me.
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Dudes on here are being a bunch of cunts. Yeah he should have to earn you, show that you're a chick with self respect that deserves go be wooed and you aren't just going to fawn all over him because he can play an instrument well. A kiss doesn't mean shit so you're prolly good. I've kissed quite a few girls that I knew I didn't "have" them we just were making out because we were bored or because making out is fun.