What makes a guy think a girl is out of his league?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Looks can be a factor, but once you get past the superficial stuff, I think it comes down to guys doubting that they have anything to offer that the girl would be interested in.

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    • I never thought of it like that! There is just this guy who apparently had a crush on me. He now has a girlfriend but I just don’t get why never asked out before his relationship? He sometimes stares at me still which is odd. My friend thinks it’s because he thinks I’m out of his league but I doubt it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • When I was in my early 20s me and this guy were really good friends and we had great chemistry. Everyone said we should be together, but he confounded in a friend and said he thought I was too good for him so that makes sense.

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What Guys Said 29

  • Her looks exceed his ego by a large margin.

    He's self conscious and sees her as someone who wouldn't look his way

    Many other reasons

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    • For my situation, the guy apparently had a crush on me but never asked me out. My friend thinks he assumed I’m out of his league but I highly doubt so. But he asked out another girl who is now his girlfriend. How did he have enough confidence to ask her out but not me?

  • Like me im insecure used to be bullied saying im ugly so i kinda just feel i am even when lots say im attractive but i feel horrible. Lol. But there's more than just that its a variable that is different between everyone.

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  • Any girl over a five. With sexually knowing females in this millennium, if you’re a mere mortal type of guy who’s packing average thunder or below, you probably just want to steer clear of them and save yourself the humiliation.

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  • Looks definitely, I work with a girl at the moment who is extremely attractive and can get any man she wants, so I think why me, I'm average looks with acne and a bit of muscle but not a lot. There's a part of me that thinks she's wasting her potential by being with me which is why she's out of my league

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    • Damn, similar situation I’m in because it’s mainly about their personality is amazing despite how they look, I focus most on their personality.

  • Her popularity, attitude, and looks
    The people she hangs around
    His confidence and past experiences

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  • Usually physical appearance, or if she acts like she is out for the money.

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  • A whole myriad of factors. His dating history, her dating history (if known), how she acts, social status, it goes on.

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  • The way she presents herself like if she thinks highly of herself and her looks and dresses in the latest clothes and such. Like being above other people and belittling them cause of how they look or dress.

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  • Looks & personality. I have no qualms about intelligence, education, or income.

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  • The same reason a girl doesn't want be seen without her makeup, insecurities and stuff

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  • Well if she's popular or really attractive then he will think she is out of his league

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  • To me, how she looks. How she dresses, how many friends she has, the car she drives, etc.

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  • When she's prettier than him and knows it and acts like it

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  • A girl with sarcastic personality is out of my league.

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  • there's no such thing as "out of my league"

    unless he lacks confidence

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  • Most of the time it's her look. Some of us are shy and we underestimate us

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  • Physical appearance or mental condition. Like their intelligence

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  • him being ignorant

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  • I don't believe in leagues

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  • Usually her looks

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  • He's insecure and puts her on a pedestral.

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