How do you know if the person you're in a relationship with is toxic?


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  • You feel like you are doing more than they are. You feel belittled, they lie and avoid anything to do with you but once it's about them they are interested.

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  • Here’s a few examples you’re in a toxic relationship:

    *He’s being selfish
    *A one-sided relationship is where you’re putting all the effort into the relationship while he doesn’t
    *Treats you badly
    *Makes you feel badly about yourself
    *Becomes hasty with you
    *Say cruel and mean things following by the words “I’m only kidding”
    *Has taken money from you without your permission
    *Doesn’t support you at ALL
    *Him being abusive
    *Him being distant, cold, aloof, and lacking emotion and etc.
    When you’re with him I want you to ask yourself:
    “Does he make me feel angry at him?”
    “Does he make me feel guilty?”
    “ Does he rarely go out his way for you, except when it benefits him?”
    “Have you caught him in lies?”
    “Does he seem to enjoy belittling you or putting others down?”

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What Guys Said 10

  • Listen to your friends, and see what they say, as they may see the relationship in an unbiased way. Also, if he is isolating you from friends and family, it's toxic.

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  • 1.) Does he control what you wear?
    2.) Does he tell you who to talk to?
    3.) Does he seem to be clingy all the time?
    4.) Does he seem to be argumentative with you?

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  • They don't like your friends, they act cold, they're always jealous of somebody that you hang out with, and tell you what to do.

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  • It's pretty easy. If someone wants to force you into things you don't want it's always toxic

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  • Does this person add or subtract from your life?

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    • What do you mean by add or subtract?

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  • If they're toxic.

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  • By observing them.

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  • Research this online x

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  • If she's a feminist.

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  • If he is always negative, putting you down, abusing you physically or mentally , and is not the same as when you first met him. Then I suggest breaking up with him.

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What Girls Said 15

  • They make you feel bad when you're together. Look back on times, were you the happiest when you're around them or when you're not? If there's a lot of extreme ups and downs, it's not good for you.

    They get angry or jealous easily, they don't understand your feelings and refuse to understand, trying to manipulate you, etc. It's hard to say with no context, but a lot of little things that add up can be toxic.

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  • If they hurt you or drain you emotionally, it's toxic. If they instigate it start fights, they're toxic. If they make you uncomfortable, they're toxic.

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  • You know if your relationship is toxic when your partner is controlling you, influencing your decisions, making you to stop hanging out with friends, does not value your family, does not appreciate the little things you do

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  • I think it's toxic if there's more bad feelings then good. You should feel good with that person the majority of the time.

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  • If there is more bad than good
    If they bring out the worst in you

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  • When they are nice to some people and mean to others. When you catch them looking at other people in a non common way.

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  • If they give you more hurt than they give you anything else... if they control you or call you degrading names...

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  • They make you depressed, lose your appetite, constantly worry, insecure.

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  • Define toxic

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  • If you're asking you might already know the answer

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  • Maybe I think drunk?

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  • When you ask this kind of question.

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  • When that person makes me feel insecure.

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  • you're dating a guy

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  • When you can't be yourself. can't do things freely

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