What if she isn't the right one?

I have strong interest in a girl. A crush plus many attributes that she has that I admire. But as I am getting to know her I fear the fact that she might not be the right one..

That said. We go to a small church together. I would hate for my pursuit, while slow, could lead to her getting strong feelings for me and mine someday vanishing. Maybe this fear is irrational, but it's still there. Anyone relate? Any advice?


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What Girls Said 2

  • My advice is don't have expectations for her to be the perfect girl. Take your time and have fun! If it doesn't work out it doesn't. Let your feelings be known that you want to take it slow and get to know her be honest. Good luck

  • Church? Good for you


What Guys Said 1

  • I think you might find more longevity in a relationship if you relax and stop overthinking it. Being critical ruins a lot of relationships.


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