Most Helpful Girl
I think it should be 100/100. Both partners need to be putting in their all. Total commitment, total effort. It’s okay for one person to give more at one time and another person to give more at another time, but in the long run, things should balance. That’s very important. A relationship can’t be healthy if it’s unfair.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes but that's never going to happen unless you find a rare exception because women expect you to initiate, pay for everything and take all the risk when you get married.