It only happens when I really like the girl, I haven't had any problems when I wasn't sure if I liked the girl or not.
How do I get rid of this anxiousness when dating? Im going on a date this weekend and don't want to fuck it up.
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Sorry dude, but anxiety on a date is just par for the course. Everyone gets anxious. It gets easier to deal with as you become more exposed to it, but therein lies the problem: you have to expose yourself to it.
If it's really as bad as you say it is, go see a doctor about getting some anti-anxiety pills. Or try taking your date to a place that you're familiar with, but won't make her uncomfortable, like your favorite coffee shop. Lastly, try doing anything before the date to boost your testosterone. Exercise, mastubate, practice power poses, etc. Anything that makes you feel energized and in control/manly should help.1