How do I not lead them on? I don't want anyone to get hurt honestly. Theyre both good guys.
That's where it gets complicated. There's no way to get out of this unscathed unless you flat out tell one of them no. As long as the other guy is strong enough to accept it, you'll do fine. I was that guy, and it hurt, but a couple of weeks later we started talking again. That was 8 years ago, and i'll be the best man at her wedding next month.
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Thanks, now I can relax a little.
Do not make things more complex than they should be.
Sorry I just feel like a terrible person.
Why? You have no commitment to either of these guys. Once you develop feeling toward one of them... if you do... then tell the other guy you are not interested.