We have not talked about exclusivity, nor do I plan on bringing it up either. It'll either happen or not. But I felt particularly bad the other day when we were watching tv, and he fell asleep on top of me and I got a text from another guy asking me on a date. I felt like I was almost cheating even thou I'm not, because I wouldn't do anything of the sort if we were exclusive. I didn't even feel that bad when I slept with my friend and went on a date with another person literally 10mins later b/c the restaurant was down the street.
Most Helpful Guy
Well nah i get it, Cuz see you want to give him so much love but you're afraid too. Wich is why you need to talk to him, bring it up, hé might be waiting for you to do so he's probably doing the same as you are. I can tell you i do just not to the same extent. I believe it is very whory (no offense) of you to lead other guys on. I would recomend you stop That and in turn be à bit flirtatious with other People instead, because receiving à text asking you on a date is basically begining of relationship status. This guy trusts you enough to sleep tight while you are with him, and you don't trust him because you don't trust you for what you do, stop That and talk guys can surprise you0
Most Helpful Girl
Ask yourself these questions: how would I feel if I found out he was doing that to me? Do I see him in my future? Does he really value me for who I am or does he just cares about what I have to offer? Here's where you messed up, you slept with him with no commitment. Ever heard the saying, why buy the cow when you're already getting the milk? It's basically saying why do I have to commit if I'm already getting what I want. I never really grasped it until I actually started paying to what I was doing. I was sleeping with guys that honestly could care less about me. Trust me, when I'm interested in a guy, I could talk to him and be with him every day but then the thought of feeling clingy creeps in. When that happens, I back up and let him be the hunter that is supposed to be. Let him chase me but yet knows I'm still going to be there. If he has true interest in you then he will notice and probably even mention that slight change you made. So either back off a little bit to see what he does and then ask yourself another question, am I really ready to commit to one person?2