Most Helpful Guy
Honestly i would not be interested if the guy fathered 5 kids and didn't stay their is probably a reason any more than one kid and personally i wouldn't consider it. find a single dad would be my suggestion otherwise your just gonna find thirsty guys that can't get laid looking for attention
Most Helpful Girl
Avoid the bad guys and you can have a great relationship with someone.
More importantly, you don't need a guy to make you whole. Love yourself first and predator guys will run away because of your high esteem.