Guys, Would you love and date a girl that gets jealous of the other females in your life?

I don't have a boyfriend, but I know that I'll be jealous. I'm already jealous of girls in my crush's life. He likes a bunch of women's sexy pictures and most of his friends are female. I also don't like how good he is with children, I wouldn't want to share him with anyone else. If he gives love and affection to someone else, I'd be upset because then I wouldn't feel special or like he cares about me? What do guys think of this?

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  • I really can’t stand it when the girl I’m interested in is jealous of my female friends. I have a decent amount of close female friends. I’m not interested in dating them at all though. It bugs me when a girl gets jealous of that becaus they can’t seem to understand that I have no romantic interest in my female friends. That being said, however, it sounds like your discomfort is justified and your guy is not acting appropriately. Call me crazy but I don’t think a guy should be doing that when he’s dating someone else.

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    • He's not dating me, he doesn't even know that I love him. He's the guy I'm in love with but I guess he's my crush because he isn't dating me at all. He had a girlfriend for the past few months (they started dating on my BDAY)

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  • For a guy it can feel daunting. Like you are trying to control their life. At the end of the day. Even if you tell him no talking to girls, he will but you just won't know about it.
    Some guys are naturally good with children and you shouldn't worry about that.

    The only reason you are jealous of the other girls is that you are seeing them as competition. If you do end up in a relationship with your crush then you wouldn't need to worry as he chose to be with you rather than anyone else.

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    • But I still wouldn't like seeing him with other girls even if he's dating me. They are my competition and if he keeps being overly nice to them that means he cares about them more than me. I'm insecure and I feel like nobody will ever love me but if I get into a relationship I want to feel all the love I was deprived of my whole life.

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    • Take the initiative and ask him out. Don't talk yourself down like that either. Just bite the bullet and go for it. Confess how you feel to him and he can make the choice. If it's a no, then try something else.

    • But I don't have feelings for someone else and I don't want to embarrass myself. I wouldn't be able to deal with the rejection, because I already hate myself and I'm enough of a failure I don't want to add another thing to the list. He recently had a girlfriend and I THINK they broke up. Oh how I HATED his girlfriend with a passion. They started dating on my birthday and I felt so hurt when I found out. I cried every night for the 7 months they were dating (8 if they haven't broken up)

  • I love being loved and it's an attractive idea, but if you get jealous in a relationship, you don't even know what means to trust someone. ¿You are afraid that much because he can be not yours? NOBODY likes jealous people, you would be you say? Try to change that, the fastest, the better, no one should be dealing with someone who tells not to do something because "reasons".

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  • It depends on the level of jealousy. A little bit can be good, it makes us feel wanted and good, but if you get really upset and over react, it's not a good thing.

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  • Your train of thought is toxic to yourself and your relationship, of you wanna be with him then trust him and deal with issues as they arise. Otherwise you will end up driving him away.

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    • I'm not toxic. That's just how I feel. I have a right to want to feel wanted and special and like somebody loves me. I want to be loved and I don't want to share it. I've been deprived of love for almost 20 years and I'm getting sick of it.

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    • There are no consequences. I'd be fine with a super possessive guy, I'd LOVE that. He doesn't really love me if he's able to be affectionate and care about other girls or give them more attention than he gives me. How would he feel if every time he was lowkey cheating on her by caring about other females or being affectionate with them that I look upset? The thing is I internalize my pain, I don't have anybody to tell because I don't have a boyfriend.

    • Then the answer is clear advertise yourself as wanting a possesive partner. I genuinely wish you luck.

  • Jealous os very unattractive. Personally I don't want to deal with my lady creating an issue out of nothing everytime I talk to another girl.

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  • I would love a girl who's just as jealous as I am lol. It's kind of fun to mess with jealous girls too lol

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  • There's such thing as to much of everything. I would find it cute to an extent. But when I say there's nothing to worry about, I mean there's nothing to worry about.

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  • It depends on how you show your jealousy, if it becomes controlling then it is super unattractive. Like my ex was jealous of my Cousin, just because my cousin (who I would never do anything with just ugghhhh) is very attractive and we'll porportioned like the rest of her side of the family. It also got to the point to where she screamed at me for watching pornography while we weren't able to hang out or have further relations for a week or two. So it depends on how it goes, if you control your jealousy and only allow some of it to show, like enough to show you care, then it's okay.

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    • I internalize it. I dwell on it and I let it make me feel angry and sometimes I feel sick about it. The thing is I've never had a boyfriend, just crushes.

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    • Honestly I feel the same way about myself. I don't have a crush. You shouldn't be afraid to take a step forward. I don't like medical stuff either but it can really help.

    • I don't need help, I'm not worth it anyways.

  • Yes I would. If its serious then the "friend girls" are obsolete.. But lady my sister, mom and nieces are in my life before and after you.

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  • No I wouldn't like that at all. I prefer women who are much more confident then that.

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  • I would have trouble with that... Jealousy is stifling.

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  • A little bit is cute but when it becomes more than cute it's a problem

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    • What would make it a problem?

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    • Well you better not be too touchy or affectionate with that friend or too caring with her.

    • I won't at all I'll put you on a pedestal make you feel very special the special love that you so deserve

  • It feels good at times but not always.. it might ruin the relationship

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  • Sure. But if she's constantly down my neck I'd just think she doesn't trust me.

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  • No some jealousy is normal but what you're describing sounds excessive

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  • That would be a nightmare

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    • Jealousy is selfish and can lead to issues that don't need to be had. It shows she also doesn't trust me and that she has insecurities she can't handle of her own.

  • Jealousy is not an admirable trait.

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  • No thanks. I don't need that same in my life.

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  • Yep. It’s kinda cool.

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  • This is normal. This is the nature of a woman.

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  • Yes why not

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  • I can handle jealousy

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  • Yes, absolutely.

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  • Yes, because it shows she cares

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  • Sometimes

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  • Yandere

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  • No... it might be a sign that she's psycho...

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    • Yes... jealousy can open the door to more extreme behavior. If you get upset because he show affection to others because that makes you feel like you are not "special" or that he does not "care" about you, then the issue is with you... not him. You have to be strong enough and secure enough not to be rattled like that. If his behavior is truly extreme and disrespectful... even after you express your discomfort, then you just need to leave him and find someone else.

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