I’m dating this guy and I feel like my house is going to be the downfall of us, I live with my family (parents and siblings) and we have mice, it’s super embarrassing, I’m in tears as I write this because my boyfriend was over and he heard a mouse and just like stormed out, mad about it. It’s super embarrassing and I’m really hurt. A lot of things here I feel like are out of my control, I clean but the house doesn’t stay clean. He said something to me about my house not being clean before and he told me “that’s why he doesn’t stay at my house”. Every time I think about it I just want to cry, a part of me wants to just tell him we should just break it off but I don’t know. When he left I felt so dumb and embarrassed. It makes me feel like he’s disgusted with me, I’m not sure what to do.