As a girl you get told all the time its easy to get a date, the only reason i haven't gotten a date or a boyfriend is because im too picky, which isn't true at all. Wanting a cute guy who takes care of himself and has a job/studies, isn't having too high standars.
within 3 years i have been on maybe 5 dates with guys i met on dating apps. I rarely meet guys in real life that interest me, and thats usually the biggest reason i even sign up for those apps. I want to date a lot (as in going on dates), but its pretty much impossible, in my experience. Anyone advice on what im doing "wrong"/ how to meet more guys?
by the way im pretty decent looking, i workout and take care of my looks and im a student. Could've had better pics though
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Maybe you live in a shitty area? Maybe your profile is shit?
If you're looking for casual dating then your pics are most important. Make sure they're flattering.
Do not use snapchat filters or ducklip poses.
Write something fun in your profile, not just a list of your likes. Everyone likes the same crap. It's booooring.
Don't be afraid to text first and be a little cheeky, and lock that first date down. Just tell the guy you're keen for a drink on Friday night.
Don't just say "hi, how are you?"
Eg. I never say the same opener twice, but I met my current boyfriend on Tinder and I messaged him first. I sent him a really dumb gif and just wrote " I'm going to message you first, because I'm a daredevil" and he laughed and we hit it straight off.