My boyfriend is possessive, how to I tell him to stop?

My boyfriend is possessive. I will list a few examples:

1. A frind told me a conversation they had:
Boyfriend: oh there she is
Friend: why? We're you looking for her?
Boyfriend: Yes, she's my girlfriend. I should know were she is.
This makes me think he feels obligated to be possessive

2. When we text each other one of the first things he asks is "What are you doing"

3. When were walking together and any of our friends come up he threatens to kill them ( he whould never, of course )

I am in love with him and want us to work out. How to I confront him about this matter?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Start how u want to finish be honest let him know how you feel about it and monitor his reaction you don't want to end up with someone that thinks it OK to treat you like a prisoner also you should make someone close to you aware of the situation. Encase problems of an abusive nature should arise

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Run! You can't reason with people like this and they only get worse.

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What Guys Said 4

  • If you can't then have a word with him.. every relationship need little sacrifice.. even he has to do... please get it clear before further n e more points raise up

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  • Tell him to stop that when he does it and tell him if he doesn't work on it you'll leave him

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  • You leave. That's what you do

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    • I'm in love with him, and it's early in our relationship. I can't.

  • You leave and avoid relationships with such guys.

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  • Leave now while you can

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