I figured he is seeing someome else but i don't want to believe it, sometimes i feel like he only uses me for sex
Ehhhhh, I don't know.. he might? It sounds bad, and from the other comments it looks like I'm not the only one saying this. Try to talk to him about why he won't settle (if you weren't already doing that)
I've tried, it's hard to get anything out of him
Look you're both very young as well, I'm not sure what is the best thing to do as this is a really crappy way for him to treat you. What if instead of just have sex you go out and do something fun like invite him for a beach walk at sunset and put some romance back into it rather than having your relationship rely on sex
That's what i want but whenever i offer, he declines
Yeahhh.. I don't know girl, looks bad to me..
He loves spending time with our daughter, just not me. He only likes to spend time with me when we have sex. But other then that he's always distant from me
Well if you think you are not getting the attention you deserve , be straight forward to him about it. Maybe he doesn't sees that he is actually not spending time with you enough.
Whenever i do, he gets mad at me and leaves.
Okayy but this kinda sounds like he is seeing someone else too then have you ever thought about that?
Many times, but he refuses to talk to me about it
Sorry to hear he treats you like this 😢😢 is he highly masculine or something? Cos it looks like he likes dominating
It's ok, and he is
Well you have a really unhealthy relationship either go to a couple counseller or if he doesn't goes to him the best thing is to leave him for better future of you and your child.
Okay, thank you
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It's hard to spend time with him, he doesn't like that kind of interaction with me
Most people lost interest after having sex
I don't know it's weird because at first he was all over me, even after having sex with him for the first time but now that seems to be the only thing he wants from me now
What can i say then if he don't want to stay with you anymore. Its very bad because having kid makes him father and one should understand his responsibilities
Do you think he might be to immature for a relationship right now?
Just talk to him directly. Ask him what you are feared of. If he loves you he will clear your doubts himself
What's his age by the way.
He's 18 and thank you that helps, I've never really addressed the situation to him, i really just complained to him about it
You both are immature. Admit it or not. And yeah talk to him about it. Only you two can solve this or make worse, no one else. This happens, if you wants to stay with each other for long run you should understand each other and talk properly and seriously. It is very easy to break up but hurts a lot later. Tc.