Most girls want to be spoiled. The ones who claim not to be are just to embarrassed to admit it or have such a low self esteem that they are willing to settle for a guy who doesn’t make her feel special. But any girl would choose a guy who spoils her over one who doesn’t.
Well then those girls can stay single. I have no need of someone to spend my money for me. I’d prefer a woman with noble principles and *sincere* affection to give who will meet half way. A woman who understands ‘give and take,’ not just take.
Those “sincere” women only exist in movies and romance novels. Money is extremely important to most women and any woman would leave a guy who is too cheap to spend money on her.
However if you LIKE being spoilt financially, but don't EXPECT it, then that's alright as well.
Yes, I meant spoiled with stuff such as gifts, nice dinners, vacations, etc...
Well I guess everybody wants to be spoilt, so it's whether you would expect it or not when you're in a relationship that would determine what kind of person you are. And whether it would affect the relationship itself if the guy in question didn't spend all his hard earned money on you.
If a guy has a lot of money, I don’t think it’d be a problem. If the guy is broke, it certainly would affect the relationship.
So now we're getting down to the point, you'd only be with someone if they're loaded and would spoil you? Yeah, that's bad quality.
I think it all depends on the two people and what they both need. If a girl has high standards, it wouldn’t be a good idea to date a guy who has no money.
Most girls want to be spoiled and be treated like queens.
I would spoil my man in non-financial ways. Cooking, cleaning, doing his laundry, etc... are all ways of reciprocating.
Right, but wouldn't he already be spoiling you without spending lots of money on extravagant gifts? Would providing a place to live, all bills paid, and a stable future not be enough for you?
And if you had a good job, you wouldn't need spoiling financially? You could just buy yourself what you wanted
I have the desire to be spoiled because it shows that a guy really does care about me. Some guys love their money more than they love their girlfriends. I don’t want a guy like that.
Because I was raised by wealthy parents.
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Everyone wants to be spoiled in different ways. I can spoil my man by cooking for him, doing his laundry, giving him massages, etc...However, I want my man to spoil me by buying me gifts, taking me on vacations, nice restaurants, etc...
Fair enough for me it depends on how you want about ie if you didn't get it would you act spoiled and petulant about it or understand why he couldn't plus that puts pressure on the guy needing to earn the money for said gifts which could mean staying in a job you don't like and become miserable to uphold the gifts
Most girls are materialistic. Some are just too embarrassed to admit that they’d choose a guy who has more resources and makes her feel special over one who doesn’t.
That’s fine. Those girls will experience the negative effects of materialism.
You’re a guy though. Guys are supposed to provide and the woman is supposed to take care of household duties.
Maybe in 1920!
Guys still do though lol
I just explained in the summary.
You mean she's has good job and personality