- Yes, this would make sure the woman isn't just with him for his money
Should men make women wait until they use their money on them?
What Girls Said 9
i feel like everyone should pay for themselves. at your age, what kid even has money? lol better to just save up and be cautious.
I actually agree. I wouldn't want any guy to feel like I'm only after his money because that's not what I'm about. Besides, I make my own, so I wouldn't expect money to be spent on me.
That being said, I appreciate being treated, for sure. My boyfriend does it all the time, and I treat him, in turn. I just surprised him with a new laptop (but he can't use it til Christmas hardeehar 😈) and now he's trying to one-up me lol
Yeah it's kind of the same train of thought as making men wait for sex to make sure he really likes you.
I paid for our meal on the second date after he paid for our meal on the first date. 😊 He’s cooked for me a few times and I brought dessert. I think an even balance is good! Butttt the guy should really offer to pay. The girl is supposed to refuse that he pay.
To be honest, the idea of a guy spending money on me have always made me uncomfortable. Even if I'm dating the guy, I like to pay for myself.
pay for yourself so nobody can be called a gold diggers
smart, all girls are golddiggers
What Guys Said 18
By that time she's moved on to some other guy even if she isn't a golddigger.
The whole point of paying for her is to signal that you are financially stable and would make a good partner for her. It shouldn't take too long to figure out when a woman is a golddigger anyway.
They gonna be waitin a while because I don't have shit
I do agree that you should not blow your money on her. But I think that you should spend SOME money on her. Like pay for her food on a date or buy her some flowers. You shouldn't spend nothing in the fear of her being a gold digger, in my opinion that will only lead to regrets
When you're broke, you don't have that problem. Lol
Quite a tangent to dating & having fun, whoever pays and however it happens
Worries over money more than the date mean
work on better career that brings in more money
definitely a good practice, however since I'm retarded and not humble at all I always flaunt my money it never attracts the right people.
I think men shouldn't be look at, as a gold mine. Men shouldn't have to be look at to pay for everything. That is just my opinion, and how I feel on the subject.
This is objectively good in theory.
I personally think men should use as little money as possible on a woman until he's ready, this is to make sure she's not a gold digger
IF SHE BREATH SHE A THOT
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