Can someone help me feel better after my terrible date?

I met a guy through a mutual friend. We texted for few days and then he asked me out. I was so happy because I liked him a lot. Well, things went terribly wrong when he invited his "friend" to join us too (without letting me know before hand). I was waiting for him at scheduled place, and when he came he asked me if it's okay for his friend to join us. I was kind of shocked but since I already came (and I'm a nice person) I told him it's okay. I figured I had a wrong idea that this was a date. His "friend" arrived 20 mins later, and I knew from just looking at him that he is gay. Hanging out with them wasn't that bad, until I realized that my guy probably also gay. The two of them apparently met few days ago at some party and the gay guy invited my guy for a coffee, and my guy figured that going out with both of us at the same time is a great idea. The gay guy was totally over my guy, it was so obvious that he likes him and he flirted hard with him. My guy was a little bit more chill but he flirted back. The more I watched the two of them the more I realized how my guy is so gay, or maybe bi I don't know. Whatever it is, it felt so wrong. I felt like shit. I felt like a third wheel. I want to get this evening out of my head like it never happened! Wtf is wrong with people these days? How could he possibly think that inviting both of us is a good idea? The gay guy didn't say that he is gay but I know he is, I can feel it, I've been around gays for too long, I know how it works. My brother is gay and I have absolutely nothing against it. But what this guy did was just... argh God (gay or not, it's wrong! he knew that I like him!).

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm sorry to have to say this, but from the outside looking in... this has got to be the funniest shit I have read in a while on G@G! 😂

    Although, I do understand where you are coming from. Your guy was absolutely using you and he should have been more forthcoming with why he intended to meet up with you. Maybe you might have mentioned about your brother to him and he must've thought that you'd understand. I don't know, pretty shitty of him, to be perfectly honest!

    In any case, it is what it is! You might not see the humour in this today or tomorrow or for the next few months but trust me years from now this will be your go to story to make people laugh at get togethers, so cheer up! 🤣

    As for the dating part, there's plenty of other fish in the sea! Worry not! 😇

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Most Helpful Girl

  • That guy is pretty weird. Who does that? Be thankful you dodged it lol.

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What Guys Said 2

  • That was simply wrong of him. He never should have asked you out.

    Don't feel bad- you didn't do anything wrong.

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  • It's okay he was just trying to keep it on the low so he didn't get found out anyways you seem like a fine upstanding citizen you should give me your number

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What Girls Said 3

  • I would get annoyed too. Gay or not you do not get flirty with others if you're dating someone

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  • I admire you can be so chill about it. I'd probably pay a few guys to beat him/them up.

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  • It's okay to feel this way. Forget about them

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